Changes..

Look around you and think..
How was life last year, or even a few months back?
Things are constantly changing.. People are constantly changing...
You are changing..
We might say that others are different,
What we don't realize is that, We are changing too..
It's so subtle that we ignore some things that are right under our noses..
We go through different things,
Deal with different situations,
People say things that we like and we don't like,
Meet many interesting characters,
You might like them, you might not..

On the surface, everything seems fine,
You meet new people, they seemed nice,
Do you really think they are how they are?
True colors are covered by their smiles and compliments they give,
You might think you have somthing in common,
When the truth is you are the opposite.
Some people except you they way you are,
Some people think you are weird,
Some just take you for granted,
It takes Forever to know a person,
Wait, It takes Eternity even to get to know yourself!
Let alone other people..

Being away from home makes me learn so much..
Makes me appreciate people, things and places..
I might do things that might make others think, "Why?"
I might offend them with what I say or do..
We don't realize sometimes that we are hurting that person's feelings,
We want to believe what we think is right..
I'm not trying to be negative here,
It's just normal, we always think about the bad most of the times.
Another thing is, we always think that we are the best,
We are the greatest, we are the nicest..
We wonder why people are not treating us well,
Why people are acting differently towards us at some point..

It could be them, but it could also be ourselves..
I have forgotten how the movie Fight Club went,
But I will never forget a line from the movie,
(I think it was that movie, correct me if I'm wrong..)
"Every action is a reaction." Which I am holding on to till now.
What makes us act a certain way?
Because somebody did that so that why we did this.
Whay did that person act that way?
Because we did that so they are acting that way...
It's so easy to blame things on other people..
It's harder to blame it on yourself but when you actually do,
You'd feel pathatic.. If it gets too much.. ehhehe...

Omg... what's my point again??
Ahh.. yes.. Changes..
This was suppose to be a happy happy cheerful thought..
but somehow, When I read it from the top,
Dosn't sound that I'm happy now.. hahahhaha...
I think that's a sign for me to stop babbling...
But the most important thing is,
Everybody hates changes
so just set goals and go with the flow..
Know that there are many people care and love you out there..
And just keep on smiling...
=D

-Synchronicity Out-