Thoughts of Love...

When you love someone, you tend to question yourself, "Why do I love this person so much?" Don't you? I don't know if you do.. But when we think about it, we actually know the answer why, But the question sometimes just pop up out of no where after all..

How do you know whether you are so deeply in love with that person or it's just lust?
How do you know when you say those 3 magic words 'I Love You' and mean it?!
How do you know that that person will be there for you when you are in need of help?
How do you blind yourselves from all the small things that sooner can be the most annoying thing you have ever come across?
How do you prove your love to him/her with out a doubt?
How do you know that your relationship is going to last until the day both of you are going to exchange rings?
How do you know that your parents will like him forever?
How do you maintain a long distance relationship or a forbidden relationship?
How do you deal with all that?

Well, as you can see, these are all random questions that sometimes pop up from your head.
Do you ignore it and just continue with life or you stop to think about it and take action or you keep on thinkin about it but not doing anything to find your answers to those questions?

Love, is very powerful. Love is unconditional. People define love in many ways in fact in different ways. In dictionaries even, you can find so many definitions of 'LOVE'.
Every couple has their own history, dramas and dreams..
They may look very happy, but you never know what's going on behind the scene..

It's funny how people look at other people and say, "Oh my... They look so sweet together..." or "They are the cutest couple ever!"
You see an old couple walkin hand in hand by the beach during sunset, you say that's sweet..
You see crippled couple getting married in the hospital where they met, you say that's sweet..
Another young couple sharing banana split while gazing into each other's eye, you say that's sweet..
In a movie, a guy sacrifies everything he has for the girl he loves, you say that's sweet..
Romeo and Juliet, *my all time favorite* they would die to be with each other, OMG that is sweet..
Brad and Jen or David and Vicky... They are sweet to me..and the rest of the world!

Well, most plans don't turn out to be like we hope them to be..
Some ethnic groups/culture think that old people should just stay at home, sleep in separate rooms, do their own things and not being intimate with their spouses anymore..
Some people think that when you are not normal, you should not get married because that will burden the people around them because they will need double the help they need before they get married..
Some think that being in love is just an illusion, they think it's pethatic..
Some think it's crazy and lame to be corney..
Killing yourself doesn't do any good, killing yourself is plain dumb and ruining your own future..
A lot of marriges are not meant to be and many have internal problems like any other layman's household..

We cannot control what is going on but we can avoid if we are aware of it.. It takes two to play the game, communications work in both ways, giving and recieving.. It's irreversable..
It's hard to make the relationship work if both parties doesn't want to help one another to spot the problem..
Every action is a reaction.. What ever happens is the effect from another effect.. It's like the egg and chiken, which came first?
Therefore think carefully before you act, because it is the reaction from another action.

Problems, dramas and crisis are few of the most important things in a relationship and also unavoidable. The happiness we have are good for our body but the sorrows we go through strenghten our spirits. As we come across a problem in a relationship, we learn new things about the person, and also both or either one can change to make it better. The fights that we have makes us stronger in a relationship, don't you think? You are required to think rationally, but can you? Will you? or have you?

But definitely, all of us know that the sun will always shine after the rainy thundery stormy day!!!! So have faith in all you do, in those you trust and path you choose... You can surely make it through the rain... Keep on loving those who loves you.. you will never miss your water till your well runs dry... =)

Coming back to the first question..... "Why do I love this person so much?" The small voice whispers to me again..
I just smiled to myself and continued doing what I was doing.....

Goodnyte!!!!!!!!!!!